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male advice needed - what goes through your heads?!...but any comment welcome

feeds@kickapps.com (clm15) — Wed, 03 Mar 2010 18:43:23 PST

This is a long, complicated story so i shall try and keep it short and simple and to the basics. Basically for over a year now I have been seeing this guy. At the beginning it was a drunken kiss and i was dating other guys at the time so when he pursued me i was not interested. However as i got to know him more i began to like him and eventually last March i decided to give up on the other guys and give him a chance. Since then it has been so up and down and confusing! At the beginning everything was fine, but i think we ended up spending too much time together, then we had a fall out over him flirting with a friend and when that blew over, things were really good again and although we never had that talk of what we were, we acted like we were in a relationship. At the beginning of last summer that then changed, as we are both at uni, and he was in his final year and i still had a...

Am I just a 'fling' for whenver he's back home

feeds@kickapps.com (Cinnamon55) — Tue, 02 Mar 2010 18:50:06 PST

Okay, so four months ago I started talking to this guy through facebook. For about 3 months we just sent each other messages back and forth talking about school, and the usual. He hardly had time to use the computer because he's a medical student so he'd reply after 4-5 days. Then he started calling me. Well he called me twice, and I called him once. Thing is, he lives here in Canada, but studies in the UK. So he's back home in Canada (where I live) every two months or so. So when we got talking on the phone, he told me how he was coming back (this was in January) and we should hang out. I was fine with that, but didn't really think too much into it, until the day he calls me on the same day he reached home. He actually asked to see me the next day, but I told him to take time to settle down, and we could see each other after a couple of days and he agreed. So anyways, our first meeting was somewhat odd. We had dinner, and well then...

what have I done wrong.... need ladies feedback on this one... gf isn't coming back

feeds@kickapps.com (m249) — Sun, 28 Feb 2010 18:32:47 PST

Hey everyone, my relationship hit a brick wall today, I need some honest-to-god truths here, I don't know where to turn to except for this forum... cuz I love my gf the dearest but I'm afraid this time things got a little too ugly.

So here is the jist of what happened,

After some cuddling and fiddling, I realized that we could have more fun if she 'trimmed' the bush a little bit so I can get more access.

I know it's an awkward topic to bring up, because I didn't want her to think that I find any part of her body imperfect. So I was very cautious, and I said to her if I could ask her something nicely without her getting mad (I know, but I couldn't think of any other way to open this up )

I went on saying it's beautiful and I wanted to taste her but things get in the way, maybe she could trim the hair a...

Work crush

feeds@kickapps.com (wheatthrasher) — Tue, 23 Feb 2010 03:34:12 PST

I've had a crush on a fellow worker for a few months. We don't work

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time. I'm fairly shy but my co-workers seem to enjoy my company after

they've gotten to know me. She's shy and a bit moody so it's been a

bit of a struggle to make the odd chit-chat with her.

I really don't know why I fell her as I've only gotten to know her

through some light conversation in the hallways and from what I

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feeds@kickapps.com (Joe25) — Wed, 17 Feb 2010 17:35:13 PST

First off, I'm not quite sure that everything I'm going to say pertains to the matter - I'm using this to find advice as much as just to vent some feelings I haven't told anybody else. Thanks for your patience in advance.
So.. where to start?
Some characteristics: I'm 18, I live in France, I'm in my first year at law school, hoping to be a diplomat, or eventually a lawyer later. Decent at school, although that's only because I'm not very inspired by my work - I think once I get a job I'll be far more achieving, since it should be something interesting. I'm pretty smart, trying to get fit through an exercise program that I've dubbed "I hate my body" (I weigh about 84kg, hoping to get to 75 or so). I like to read, watch tv, play some video games, listen to music (I'm also trying to learn to play piano, to sing and would eventually take guitar lessons). I play chess, have long hair tied in a ponytail, don't drink too much, I'm nice, always ready to help folk... I'm somewhat...

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feeds@kickapps.com (misstara) — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 00:34:35 PST

My boyfriend and I have been arguing a lot lately. It seems that we mostly argue about the way that we argue, and we're constantly discussing how we should act/react the next time. Like tonight, I got a little down because we had a small discussion about something and he told me that I never let him talk. I was fine after the conversation for awhile and then I started to think about his words. Almost every time we argue he uses the words "never" or "always" or "every time", and I started to feel down because if he really believes that I "never do this" or "always do that", then maybe he shouldn't want to be with someone like me right? So I simply went to him and asked him if I could ask him something. He said yes and we sat down and I told him that when he uses these words so often they stick in my head and I hear them over and over and it starts to make me feel like I"m just not good enough for him. So I asked him if he really believes these things he says, because if he does then...

Very hung up on my ex-boyfriend! Please read and advise!

feeds@kickapps.com (juneroses) — Sun, 07 Feb 2010 16:33:43 PST

Hi everyone,

The weird part about this whole thing is that I only dated my ex for about two weeks. It took us a whole semester to finally find time to get together (I have a very busy school and work schedule, and he works 3 jobs) and it only lasted two weeks. But it was the best I was ever treated by a guy. He drove 45 minutes to see me nearly every day, called me and left me messages just to let me know he was thinking about me. He gave me presents, and introduced me to his entire family as his girlfriend. He even gave me his credit card number over the telephone and allowed me to drive him $16,000 dream car. Anyone who saw what was between us would be in agreement that he was pursuing me much much more. Then out of the blue he called me on New Years Eve (after talking earlier that morning) and said he couldn't be with me anymore.

I played it cool even though I was shocked. He appologized over and over for hurting me and I said calmly, "It's fine...

Do I kiss him??

feeds@kickapps.com (missmeliss25) — Thu, 04 Feb 2010 15:00:50 PST

Seven months ago I met a guy who'd come into my office (we'd spoken on the phone a few times--his company was working for ours) and he was cute! I got a little bit of a vibey-smile from him so I shot him a message later that day (against all better judgment I had to go with my gut) to tell him we should 'hang out' some time. Well, he bit and we ended up going on a great date (he paid, was sweet, funny and we kissed) however I made the mistake (I think) of coming on a little too strong in emails after the date. Either that or it was the fact that he lives 2 hours away (I didn't know that. I assumed he lived near where we both worked). I didn't see him after that one date. I was bummed.

Regardless, Saturday night (I really liked him. I was so thrilled that I forgot about your no-reply on weekend night rule) he requested to add me on Facebook. I wrote him a short little "hi. how are you? hope...

need help, please

feeds@kickapps.com (ddevlin) — Wed, 03 Feb 2010 18:07:45 PST

ok time for the full story, andrea if you're reading this, this is the only place i can come to because i cant talk to you about it and we dont make our problems public (i figured this is rather public but who the hell knows who we are anyway)

ok 6/12/08 me and my girlfriend got together just after i broke up with my previous of 2 months (im a good guy she was the problem so i dont see anything bad about what i did)
everything is going well im leaving in 2 days with my rugby team for a tour of 2 days and whilst on it i simply cannot wait to get back and see her.So about 3-4 weeks in i realise that shes rather insecure about herself, body,looks anything she can be insecure about i guess, although before this we both talked about other people saying aw theyre goodlooking or theyre hot, the usual i guess, so when i find out her feelings i sort of find it hard to adjust to but within this short space of time ive already fallen in love with her big time...

In Love or Not In Love

feeds@kickapps.com (SolarisEclipse) — Thu, 28 Jan 2010 01:53:13 PST

I've been dating this guy since October of last year he lives in another town at least 3 over from me, we talked on the phone for two months before we met 1st. Once a week sometimes two I travel to his place because I'm staying with a friend and her two children. We barely do anything we don't go out every blue moon he takes me out to eat. He sometimes sleeps till 1pm whenever I spend the night so I get stuck either sleeping or laying there like a zombie.

When I'm with him, he is always using his ipod or he is always answering the phone or everyone else's text that he gets while he is with me but yet he doesn't get back to me when I text or call him, last month he told me first that he loved me, but he seems to have a weird way of showing it, it started just before Christmas. Several days would go by before I hear from him I have to...

What should i do?

feeds@kickapps.com (Mhp) — Wed, 27 Jan 2010 03:48:52 PST

Hi,
I am a first year university student and live on residence. Over the last few months I have been becoming really good friends with a girl in my building. We have a really good platonic friendship, but she ended up breaking up with her boyfriend and one night we were watching a movie, but after it was finished ended up staying up all night talking in bed. The next morning and most of the afternoon we slept together (just slept non-sexually) and cuddled a bit. The next night I went up to her room and we did the same thing again. I don`t know if this sleeping together thing is just for mutual comfort, or if there`s something more there. It`s kinda wierd because when we are together during the day in a group of friends she will act like there is nothing happening between us, when I think there might be. For instance when we were in a group of friends we all went to the movies...

Ugh!!! What do I do now?

feeds@kickapps.com (locobatch) — Sun, 24 Jan 2010 11:31:33 PST

I am so confused right now!

I just got an email from my ex-boyfriend, the one who got married last month.

What do I do? I mean gees!!! I am to the point where I am...

Confused.....

feeds@kickapps.com (n4mele5s) — Sat, 23 Jan 2010 15:47:34 PST

Due to my smoking habits, my ex girlfriend decided to ask me for my pack of cigarettes to count how many I smoked in a day. As I was very paranoid with the situation, I lied to her about throwing away my pack of cigarettes. Unfortunately, she found out and we made an argument about the situation for two nights. I understand that what I say was wrong and I tried to do things to make it up to her by cutting down completely. Afterward, she started picking little things out of me and saying that I do not listen to her and etc.

A week later, she decided to break up with me over the phone without trying to work things out or even considering giving me a second chance to change. The next day, I was very depressed and so I called her bestfriend to go out for drinks because I know that her bestfriend was not busy that day. She agreed on meeting up with me but she said that my ex-girlfriend is also coming to join me and her for food and drinks.

When we met...

Do I Move On? Advice please?

feeds@kickapps.com (daniellemoles) — Thu, 21 Jan 2010 00:23:12 PST

I dated this guy for about a year in a half, he was my frist love and I just so happened to be his. He is a very complicated guy and I know how we works as well as he knows how I am. We broke up a year ago and ever since we've been kinda on and off, I believe the reason for the whole on and off thing is because I didn't let ourselves ease back into our relationship I rushed it every single time we've gotten back together on the first day we'd get together. We fight, but when we don't fight we are both so happy. Well now this whole on and off thing ended and he has a new girl, I've been trying to leave it alone but I dont want to lose him as bad as that sounds. He has cheated on her with me and ever since we just stopped talking, its been about a month since I last talked to him and it wasn't a good conversation, the past few times we have talked it always turns into a fight. I asked him if he thinks we'd be back together again, and he just says...

lookin fo friends to talk to bout love

feeds@kickapps.com (Ana2407) — Fri, 15 Jan 2010 14:13:38 PST

Hey im looking for friends that would like to get to know me and talk. If you wana be friends just hit me up!!!!!!!!!!!!

ok, so how do i reverse this breakup?

feeds@kickapps.com (blossom) — Thu, 14 Jan 2010 14:04:42 PST

Dear Mimi,

Since my divorce, I have read much of your advice and have found it to be in sync with what I think. I have also previously read Christian Carter, Bob Grant, etc. etc....
Basically, I had a bad breakup in July, and met someone who had a bad breakup in August. Because I needed to get my head on straight, we didn't end up actually meeting until November when we went on our first date. he is patient and kind, and generous, and sweet and thoughtful. I did not have time to fall crazy in love with him, yet, it was more mature sort of respect on my part, and something i think that would have been deeper. I felt like a woman in his presence. There were no non-negotiables he violated for me in the short while we dated, except the behavior of one of his friends, which really wasn't him doing something, but rather allowing something. I think because he wasn't ready to commit.

Although I have never done it before, I slept with him in December (yes...

How do you know when it's right? Advice needed!

feeds@kickapps.com (swire1) — Wed, 13 Jan 2010 05:49:08 PST

It's probably a story you've all heard before, but despite my age I hope you'll all still take me seriously. I'm 22, my girlfriend is 18 and we've been together for nearly 2 years. The issue for me is, and it's been going back and forth in my mind since we started getting serious, she's had quite a sexually active past, not so much unlike myself just under different circumstances. She moved from a small village in the country right into central London at the age of 12, had no friends other than her older sisters friends (2 years older), she always felt shadowed by her sister in terms of looks and intellect so naturally as a young girl she wanted to try and prove herself. From 14 through to 16 she started having sex, drinking, smoking cannabis and just generally doing anything that she thought would make her look cool and would give her an edge as she was trying to prove herself. This is why I said our sex lives are somewhat matched in terms of numbers,...

So sad and don't no which way to turn next

feeds@kickapps.com (katseyesicu2) — Mon, 11 Jan 2010 17:20:34 PST

Hello all. I will try and keep this as brief as I can, me and my partner have been together now for 18 years we have 2 children age 16 and 10. Our relationship problems begun when we moved house 2 half years ago, in this time we have had some really tough times we both have had to cope with loss in our family's my partner lost his sister to cancer 2 years ago, he was devastated and still is he was very close to his sister in age as well (39 and 40) I lost my nan as well which was a tough time as well, along with this we have had many challenges to deal with my daughter has special educational needs and has been having problems with bully's at school this has effected me a great deal as I'm not getting the support from her school like I should be, my partner has been really unhappy at work which has affected his moods. Also my partners been trying to rebuild a very broken relationship with his father they had not spoken in about 20 years but have been in contact again for...