Work crush

feeds@kickapps.com (wheatthrasher) — Tue, 23 Feb 2010 03:34:12 PST

I've had a crush on a fellow worker for a few months. We don't work

directly together but we have the odd bit of contact from time to

time. I'm fairly shy but my co-workers seem to enjoy my company after

they've gotten to know me. She's shy and a bit moody so it's been a

bit of a struggle to make the odd chit-chat with her.

I really don't know why I fell her as I've only gotten to know her

through some light conversation in the hallways and from what I

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Very hung up on my ex-boyfriend! Please read and advise!

feeds@kickapps.com (juneroses) — Sun, 07 Feb 2010 16:33:43 PST

Hi everyone,

The weird part about this whole thing is that I only dated my ex for about two weeks. It took us a whole semester to finally find time to get together (I have a very busy school and work schedule, and he works 3 jobs) and it only lasted two weeks. But it was the best I was ever treated by a guy. He drove 45 minutes to see me nearly every day, called me and left me messages just to let me know he was thinking about me. He gave me presents, and introduced me to his entire family as his girlfriend. He even gave me his credit card number over the telephone and allowed me to drive him $16,000 dream car. Anyone who saw what was between us would be in agreement that he was pursuing me much much more. Then out of the blue he called me on New Years Eve (after talking earlier that morning) and said he couldn't be with me anymore.

I played it cool even though I was shocked. He appologized over and over for hurting me and I said calmly, "It's fine...

Do I kiss him??

feeds@kickapps.com (missmeliss25) — Thu, 04 Feb 2010 15:00:50 PST

Seven months ago I met a guy who'd come into my office (we'd spoken on the phone a few times--his company was working for ours) and he was cute! I got a little bit of a vibey-smile from him so I shot him a message later that day (against all better judgment I had to go with my gut) to tell him we should 'hang out' some time. Well, he bit and we ended up going on a great date (he paid, was sweet, funny and we kissed) however I made the mistake (I think) of coming on a little too strong in emails after the date. Either that or it was the fact that he lives 2 hours away (I didn't know that. I assumed he lived near where we both worked). I didn't see him after that one date. I was bummed.

Regardless, Saturday night (I really liked him. I was so thrilled that I forgot about your no-reply on weekend night rule) he requested to add me on Facebook. I wrote him a short little "hi. how are you? hope...

need help, please

feeds@kickapps.com (ddevlin) — Wed, 03 Feb 2010 18:07:45 PST

ok time for the full story, andrea if you're reading this, this is the only place i can come to because i cant talk to you about it and we dont make our problems public (i figured this is rather public but who the hell knows who we are anyway)

ok 6/12/08 me and my girlfriend got together just after i broke up with my previous of 2 months (im a good guy she was the problem so i dont see anything bad about what i did)
everything is going well im leaving in 2 days with my rugby team for a tour of 2 days and whilst on it i simply cannot wait to get back and see her.So about 3-4 weeks in i realise that shes rather insecure about herself, body,looks anything she can be insecure about i guess, although before this we both talked about other people saying aw theyre goodlooking or theyre hot, the usual i guess, so when i find out her feelings i sort of find it hard to adjust to but within this short space of time ive already fallen in love with her big time...

Ugh!!! What do I do now?

feeds@kickapps.com (locobatch) — Sun, 24 Jan 2010 11:31:33 PST

I am so confused right now!

I just got an email from my ex-boyfriend, the one who got married last month.

What do I do? I mean gees!!! I am to the point where I am...

Confused.....

feeds@kickapps.com (n4mele5s) — Sat, 23 Jan 2010 15:47:34 PST

Due to my smoking habits, my ex girlfriend decided to ask me for my pack of cigarettes to count how many I smoked in a day. As I was very paranoid with the situation, I lied to her about throwing away my pack of cigarettes. Unfortunately, she found out and we made an argument about the situation for two nights. I understand that what I say was wrong and I tried to do things to make it up to her by cutting down completely. Afterward, she started picking little things out of me and saying that I do not listen to her and etc.

A week later, she decided to break up with me over the phone without trying to work things out or even considering giving me a second chance to change. The next day, I was very depressed and so I called her bestfriend to go out for drinks because I know that her bestfriend was not busy that day. She agreed on meeting up with me but she said that my ex-girlfriend is also coming to join me and her for food and drinks.

When we met...

Do I Move On? Advice please?

feeds@kickapps.com (daniellemoles) — Thu, 21 Jan 2010 00:23:12 PST

I dated this guy for about a year in a half, he was my frist love and I just so happened to be his. He is a very complicated guy and I know how we works as well as he knows how I am. We broke up a year ago and ever since we've been kinda on and off, I believe the reason for the whole on and off thing is because I didn't let ourselves ease back into our relationship I rushed it every single time we've gotten back together on the first day we'd get together. We fight, but when we don't fight we are both so happy. Well now this whole on and off thing ended and he has a new girl, I've been trying to leave it alone but I dont want to lose him as bad as that sounds. He has cheated on her with me and ever since we just stopped talking, its been about a month since I last talked to him and it wasn't a good conversation, the past few times we have talked it always turns into a fight. I asked him if he thinks we'd be back together again, and he just says...

lookin fo friends to talk to bout love

feeds@kickapps.com (Ana2407) — Fri, 15 Jan 2010 14:13:38 PST

Hey im looking for friends that would like to get to know me and talk. If you wana be friends just hit me up!!!!!!!!!!!!

ok, so how do i reverse this breakup?

feeds@kickapps.com (blossom) — Thu, 14 Jan 2010 14:04:42 PST

Dear Mimi,

Since my divorce, I have read much of your advice and have found it to be in sync with what I think. I have also previously read Christian Carter, Bob Grant, etc. etc....
Basically, I had a bad breakup in July, and met someone who had a bad breakup in August. Because I needed to get my head on straight, we didn't end up actually meeting until November when we went on our first date. he is patient and kind, and generous, and sweet and thoughtful. I did not have time to fall crazy in love with him, yet, it was more mature sort of respect on my part, and something i think that would have been deeper. I felt like a woman in his presence. There were no non-negotiables he violated for me in the short while we dated, except the behavior of one of his friends, which really wasn't him doing something, but rather allowing something. I think because he wasn't ready to commit.

Although I have never done it before, I slept with him in December (yes...

How do you know when it's right? Advice needed!

feeds@kickapps.com (swire1) — Wed, 13 Jan 2010 05:49:08 PST

It's probably a story you've all heard before, but despite my age I hope you'll all still take me seriously. I'm 22, my girlfriend is 18 and we've been together for nearly 2 years. The issue for me is, and it's been going back and forth in my mind since we started getting serious, she's had quite a sexually active past, not so much unlike myself just under different circumstances. She moved from a small village in the country right into central London at the age of 12, had no friends other than her older sisters friends (2 years older), she always felt shadowed by her sister in terms of looks and intellect so naturally as a young girl she wanted to try and prove herself. From 14 through to 16 she started having sex, drinking, smoking cannabis and just generally doing anything that she thought would make her look cool and would give her an edge as she was trying to prove herself. This is why I said our sex lives are somewhat matched in terms of numbers,...

Girlfriend still in contact with past relationships

feeds@kickapps.com (leaning mast) — Fri, 08 Jan 2010 15:42:54 PST

Hi.I'm new here.Need some advise.I am in a 4 month relationship with a great lady.We are both divorced,but have dated other people since our divorces.We have both talked about previous relationships that we have had.I am not in contact with the previous people I was involved with.I feel that if the relationship is over,it is over.I found out over the holidays that She is still in contact (texting,e-mail,etc.)with several people She had spent time with.I feel a little bit odd about this.Should I be worried? She says I should not feel threatened,but at the same time I am wondering if I am providing enough emotional support for Her.We both love each other,so why would She want to be in contact with Her past relationships? Am I just being insecure here?

Why does he keep coming back?

feeds@kickapps.com (Ana2407) — Thu, 07 Jan 2010 13:07:10 PST

Ok well theres this guy that i went out with for 5 years and then we had some trouble and broke up. after 3 months we got back together but broke up again. For 3 months we would brake up and get back together. Finally i deided to be done with him, but every time im ready to move on he always comes along to ruin it. He starts flirting with me and treats me great. Then he leaves and comes back and does the same thing. I know i should just move on but i can't and he tells me he loves me and i beleive him. What should i do need some advice.

Just need to know WHAT to say

feeds@kickapps.com (georgiagirl) — Wed, 06 Jan 2010 19:35:52 PST

Ok, I am a bit embarrassed to still say that I still want to win the heart of the guy I have been talking to almost 3 years even though we haven't met. Part his fault, part mine. I can see both sides. But the bottom line is we have these feelings, yet we won't act. He won't. I won't.
Honestly I don't even know what I am asking here. Maybe I need a little advice or maybe am looking for an anonymous email friend with whom we can discuss our r'ships as they evolve or whatever. I have great insight when it's someone else we're talking about, lol.
But right now, in my situation, I just need to know WHAT to say.
I read the books. I know to be authentic and feminine about my feelings, and seek to discover if this relationship is serving my needs or not. I know all that. But what I don't know is what to say, the words, and even if I know what I feel, which words/feelings should I express? Which should I hold back??
When a guy needs to...

Two Weeks

feeds@kickapps.com (galsbestgal) — Tue, 05 Jan 2010 19:11:56 PST

Alright, so, I have recently become close friends with this senior at my school. I recently found out that he initially talked to me because he thought I was cute, and now he's like "head over heels" for me, but I'm not yet sure how to feel about him.

There are a couple of red flags I have about the final decision as to whether or not I should date him: he has an ex-gf that still doesn't want to leave him alone and who hates me even though she's never met me; his friend wants to get to know me, and he doesn't know how to tell him that he has feelings for me and doesn't want to hurt him; I know that I'm the type of person who would try to destroy a relationship, likely by trying to change his appearance or something like that.

But then there are the good parts: someone to always talk to (we talk almost constantly), someone to hold, etc. I told him that I won't know my decision for two weeks; because, the way I see it,...

My girl friend says she'll be jealous

feeds@kickapps.com (Torredor) — Sat, 02 Jan 2010 07:49:27 PST

I'm in a bit of a pickle; one of my girl friends is causing me mental strain because of something peculiar that she said and I haven't had a lot of girl friends so I'm a little stuck on what to do or not to do and would love a female's perspective on this but any advice would be appreciated. A bit of background info first to give you an idea:

(Sorry about the length, I thought to get a response I have to give a good description)

Well, I asked him what the difference was and he said my attitude.
WOW!! Fun right!!! Whoa, wait a minute, my attitude?!
Did that mean he still thought about me as more than ?????
He then texted...

I think its time for me to go wat do u think ???

feeds@kickapps.com (missyregan) — Fri, 25 Dec 2009 22:35:27 PST

Well i dont know wat 2 do anymore..... We have been fightin i dont know if its me that starts it........ He is 20 and im 18 n my ex is 41 he dosent know anything but im scard to tell him that iv been wiv ma ex 5 times now .......... This christmas has been as hard as last christmas i was raped last christmas n i keep goin back 2 that i cnt tell him that n i dont want him 2 touch me n i dont want 2 get married to him as much as i did............ Im worried n im confused at the min wat do i do now please help me i cnt take anymore .......

Thanks.......

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