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        <title>Whats happening? </title>
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        <![CDATA[ Hiya, I&#39;m married to my wife for six years. We&#39;ve two beautiful children, aged 5 &amp; 2. We both work. My wife is employed full time 9-5. Up till
recently we&#39;ve had an excellent love life. Lots of laughs. The kids keep us busy and we&#39;ve had a number of bugs ......colds, sick tummies etc.....so
sleep is at a premium. Of late our sex life has ceased. We&#39;ve gone from making love very regularly to currently once a month. Its now been five weeks.
I&#39;ve tried to talk with my... ]]>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Re: Whats happening?  ]]></title>
			<link>http://relationship-advice.com/reply/2772/t/Whats-happening-.html#reply-2772</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ Just like men, women need their caves to retreat into when they are mentally stressed or overwelmed. Any distractions that allow us to drift away from the
problem/s at hand are welcomed. TV numbs the brain and the Internet lets us live vicariously through others. During these low mental periods, an unfortunate
byproduct is that we withdraw away from those closest to us. Sometimes we just reach a point where we feel unappreciated, taken for granted, unloved,
unnurtured, unsexy and unspecial. This is a perception and does not necessarily reflect the truth of our lives. It is in part a form of depression that all
women go through, every now and then. The most common demand on a woman from her husband/partner, is sex. He wants it and she&#39;s too stressed to want to
think about it, talk about it, deal with it or do it.
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When men think about sex, he wants to do it and for some reason automatically believe that she wants it right there and then too. That&#39;s a falsehood. The... ]]></description>

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			<author>feeds@kickapps.com (Kauritree)</author>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Re: Whats happening?  ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ I&#39;d be interested to know your wife&#39;s age. Women sometimes go through so many hormonal changes for a few years after having children. With the
increased stress of taking care of small ones like that, maintaining a household and working, it is not surprising she is just too tired sometimes. Our libidos
seem to go out the window in the early child rearing years for some reason. Mine did but as soon as I turned 40 it really, really kicked back in and now my
mate cannot keep up with my libido. One thing she can do is see her gynecologist though and see if there is anything they can give her to help increase her
libido and also if you are not helping AS much as you should with the kids and chores, help her with that (although it sounds like you may be a good hands-on
father, just a hunch), a little help goes a long way where kids and housework is concerned. I&#39;d also suggest making a date night at least once every couple
of weeks if not more. Get a sitter or send the kids to... ]]></description>

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			<author>feeds@kickapps.com (frm999)</author>
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			<pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 13:01:19 PST</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Whats happening?  ]]></title>
			<link>http://relationship-advice.com/topic/943/t/Whats-happening-.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ Hiya, I&#39;m married to my wife for six years. We&#39;ve two beautiful children, aged 5 &amp; 2. We both work. My wife is employed full time 9-5. Up till
recently we&#39;ve had an excellent love life. Lots of laughs. The kids keep us busy and we&#39;ve had a number of bugs ......colds, sick tummies etc.....so
sleep is at a premium. Of late our sex life has ceased. We&#39;ve gone from making love very regularly to currently once a month. Its now been five weeks.
I&#39;ve tried to talk with my wife about this and she tells me she&#39;s tired, has a tummy bug or having her period. I&#39;ve made it pretty obvious I&#39;d
like to spend time together and suggested going to bed early but the telly or facebook get her attention. This has been going on now for four maybe five
months. I&#39;ve been very patient. However, I becoming very frustrated with the situation. For a week or so now I&#39;ve made no physical advances. Being
rejected three or four times hurt. Not sure what to do next.... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Tue, 03 Nov 2009 07:59:53 PST</pubDate>
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