Hey everyone, my relationship hit a brick wall today, I need some honest-to-god truths here, I don't know where to turn to except for this forum... cuz I love my gf the dearest but I'm afraid this time things got a little too ugly.
So here is the jist of what happened,
After some cuddling and fiddling, I realized that we could have more fun if she 'trimmed' the bush a little bit so I can get more access.
I know it's an awkward topic to bring up, because I didn't want her to think that I find any part of her body imperfect. So I was very cautious, and I said to her if I could ask her something nicely without her getting mad (I know, but I couldn't think of any other way to open this up
)
I went on saying it's beautiful and I wanted to taste her but things get in the way, maybe she could trim the hair a little.
Anyway, so I guess the nice conversation stopped there, now I'm not blaming anyone here, but my girlfriend got really really upset because she thinks that I don't find her attractive and that I think her body isnt good enough or something along those lines. And she got really hurt and left... saying shes not coming back because she'll always think of what I said... I know she has a good reason to get upset and everything and I'm trying to point fingers here.
But that's really not what I meant though, maybe I didn't say it right, or maybe it was a stupid thing for me to ask, but all I really wanted to tell her was that, I wanted to give her more loving, but I can't do it with hair in the way..... I'm not implying that there's something wrong with her at all... she doesn't like shaving/waxing, I understand so I suggested trimming... but it was all too late.
is it really unreasonable, and inconsiderate, and selfish that I said what I said today? I want to get some feedback from the ladies here. Maybe I approached this issue in a totally wrong way according to the female world..... I don't want to lose my gf because of this...
I don't know how to save this .... what am I supposed to do to salvage what's left??
thanks in advance for your comments
So here is the jist of what happened,
After some cuddling and fiddling, I realized that we could have more fun if she 'trimmed' the bush a little bit so I can get more access.
I know it's an awkward topic to bring up, because I didn't want her to think that I find any part of her body imperfect. So I was very cautious, and I said to her if I could ask her something nicely without her getting mad (I know, but I couldn't think of any other way to open this up
)I went on saying it's beautiful and I wanted to taste her but things get in the way, maybe she could trim the hair a little.
Anyway, so I guess the nice conversation stopped there, now I'm not blaming anyone here, but my girlfriend got really really upset because she thinks that I don't find her attractive and that I think her body isnt good enough or something along those lines. And she got really hurt and left... saying shes not coming back because she'll always think of what I said... I know she has a good reason to get upset and everything and I'm trying to point fingers here.
But that's really not what I meant though, maybe I didn't say it right, or maybe it was a stupid thing for me to ask, but all I really wanted to tell her was that, I wanted to give her more loving, but I can't do it with hair in the way..... I'm not implying that there's something wrong with her at all... she doesn't like shaving/waxing, I understand so I suggested trimming... but it was all too late.
is it really unreasonable, and inconsiderate, and selfish that I said what I said today? I want to get some feedback from the ladies here. Maybe I approached this issue in a totally wrong way according to the female world..... I don't want to lose my gf because of this...
I don't know how to save this .... what am I supposed to do to salvage what's left??
thanks in advance for your comments
