I dated this guy for about a year in a half, he was my frist love and I just so happened to be his. He is a very complicated guy and I know how we works as well as he knows how I am. We broke up a year ago and ever since we've been kinda on and off, I believe the reason for the whole on and off thing is because I didn't let ourselves ease back into our relationship I rushed it every single time we've gotten back together on the first day we'd get together. We fight, but when we don't fight we are both so happy. Well now this whole on and off thing ended and he has a new girl, I've been trying to leave it alone but I dont want to lose him as bad as that sounds. He has cheated on her with me and ever since we just stopped talking, its been about a month since I last talked to him and it wasn't a good conversation, the past few times we have talked it always turns into a fight. I asked him if he thinks we'd be back together again, and he just says possibly in the future, just not right now & thats always the answer I get. Well in this past year I've learned a lot and I know where I went wrong in everything and how I need to change to make things work if anything were to ever happen again... But my main problem is that I dont know if i should, all i know is that I want to try one more time so bad- except he has the new girl in his life. I recently found out that she happens to be just like me personality wise and looks. I dont know if thats just ironic. So do I give it a shot and try to do things right this time and get ahead of the game or do I leave it... Please help me out, it'd really help me alot