Hi,
I am a first year university student and live on residence. Over the last few months I have been becoming really good friends with a girl in my building. We have a really good platonic friendship, but she ended up breaking up with her boyfriend and one night we were watching a movie, but after it was finished ended up staying up all night talking in bed. The next morning and most of the afternoon we slept together (just slept non-sexually) and cuddled a bit. The next night I went up to her room and we did the same thing again. I don`t know if this sleeping together thing is just for mutual comfort, or if there`s something more there. It`s kinda wierd because when we are together during the day in a group of friends she will act like there is nothing happening between us, when I think there might be. For instance when we were in a group of friends we all went to the movies and we didnt end up sitting together, but whenever we are alone I think she might be sending subtle messages... i.e. body language, kinda cryptic messages... etc.. She initiated the first night of cuddling together, but the second I did, and from there on it seems like she`s trying to make me make all of the moves....... But anyways I really like her a lot, and would not mind pursuing a romantic relationship,,, but i dont want to ruin whatever it is we have now...... What do you think I should do?
I am a first year university student and live on residence. Over the last few months I have been becoming really good friends with a girl in my building. We have a really good platonic friendship, but she ended up breaking up with her boyfriend and one night we were watching a movie, but after it was finished ended up staying up all night talking in bed. The next morning and most of the afternoon we slept together (just slept non-sexually) and cuddled a bit. The next night I went up to her room and we did the same thing again. I don`t know if this sleeping together thing is just for mutual comfort, or if there`s something more there. It`s kinda wierd because when we are together during the day in a group of friends she will act like there is nothing happening between us, when I think there might be. For instance when we were in a group of friends we all went to the movies and we didnt end up sitting together, but whenever we are alone I think she might be sending subtle messages... i.e. body language, kinda cryptic messages... etc.. She initiated the first night of cuddling together, but the second I did, and from there on it seems like she`s trying to make me make all of the moves....... But anyways I really like her a lot, and would not mind pursuing a romantic relationship,,, but i dont want to ruin whatever it is we have now...... What do you think I should do?
